Tuesday, July 11, 2017


Can I make Monday as my Sabbath as I have to go to office every Sunday for a build release?
Can I skip Sunday church since I have coaching classes, I m sure God wont mind
Can I miss my early morning devotion since I am a late riser, but I am sure I will do it before I go to sleep.
Can we have prayer over watsapp call as we all are pressed for time.
I will give the morning church worship service a miss and attend EGF in the evening, after all its all about meeting?
Can we meet only for ICEU event and programmes as every week cell fellowship is too much of a drag.

Well if your answer to all this “Can I” questions is a NO, then you are not flexible person out of step with the current “FLEXI” generation, where everything form Vodafone recharge to EMI payments is flexible.
And if you go further and quote verses like:
Remember to observe the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Exodus 20:8
Let us not give up the habit of meeting together, Hebrews 10:25
For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” Mathew 18:20
Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds. out of the mouth of God.'" Mathew 4:4
...etc. etc.

then ho ho, you are for sure to be branded “Old school, legalistic, fundamentalist, insensitive, khadoos(crazy) in the books of many.

So before we ask “HOW should we”, a well thought out answer should be given to the question “SHOULD WE OR NOT” bring the concept of FLEX TIME into our spiritual lifes that our companies adapt so well.


In a young graduates EGF which meets every Wednesday morning, Siddharth starts with his stand on that question:

Siddharth: As for me, I would say No we should not have flexibility with regards to all areas of life. There are certain principles, boundaries, disciplines that for good reason are not flexible, there are absolutes and not relative!

G.K. Chesterton quotes"Whenever you remove any fence, always pause long enough to ask yourself, 'Why was it put there in the first place?'"
The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance. Psalm 16:6
If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do? Psalm 11:3

I draw my interpretation that just like boundary lines & foundations cannot be flexible, it has to be definite. Imagine a house with flexible foundations or a boundary line which can be extended as per seasons. Similarly it is in a disciplined Christian life

So here what I draw my point to, there are certain negotiable and non negotiables in general which can be drawn for Christendom and for all Christians. There is no flexibility in that.

Now Naresh joins in the discussion rather more animately:
Naresh : how can you throw a general blanket cover principle to all lifestyles?
Sidharth: but does not the bible do the same when......
Preeti (interrupting): “how insensitive” of God oops I mean how sensitive of you siddharth to quote the bible now, don't you realise you are acting too rigid here?
Madhusmitha: Well, I have an idea, why don't we come together to the drawing table and frame the negotiables and non negotiables in the life of a student and the life of a working graduate

They all nod their head in unison and start.......


..and the discussion continues....

Tuesday, February 14, 2017

Remembering my Lover on Valentines day!!

A Lover who... feeds you
A Lover who...stands for you
A Lover who...who pays taxes for you
A Lover who...loves your mother in law
A Lover who...washes your feet
A Lover who...comes home to dine with you
A Lover who...loves your children
A Lover who...travels with you by road or by sea
A Lover who...forgives your betrayal
A Lover who...understands your denial
A Lover who...gives you a job to do
A Lover who...appreciates you for just sitting at the feet
A Lover who...writes his love for you withhis own blood
A Lover who...wrote a love letter to you
A Lover who...gives you a teacher to understand his letters
A Lover who...died loving for you
A Lover who...is preparing a place for you to be with him forever
A Lover who...is coming back for you


Thursday, February 2, 2017


 Australian cricket team is known as the worst losers. They will do anything to win a cricket match. Sledging , cheating, putting pressure on umpires, playing out of their skin- on the verge of losing they will pull up every trick under the hat. Ask a Australian cricketer and he will say, we don't like losing, we were trained to win. Debatable philosophy on field.

But off the field. on life’s race, failures are inevitable. Failures will come and will test what metal we are made off. Our response to failures determines our Character. There are well known quotes like:
-Failures are stepping stones to success.
-No great success was ever achieved without failure: Thomas alva Edison 10,000 attempts to create a light bulb.Etc. etc

But no other quote is more powerful than this one” the mother of all truths”...
It goes like this from Romans 8:28” And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose”

Meditate the depth in this verse. Someone asked” what is more important than one’s life”.The other replied ”the cause for which one lives”.Failures have a purpose, but that can only be seen from the eyes of God. You and I may not have a podium finish all the time in life, but then faced with failures you can trust God to write your ending. Always have God write the ending for every situation in life. We tend to worry about the battle at hand, but God looks at winning the final war. So its important to not see temporary momentary loses but look towards permanent everlasting gains. Lose the battle (may be Yes), but win the war, (oh yeah hallelujah!)

 Reminds me of the final volume written by Sir Winston Churchill about the  final years of the 2nd world war. The overriding impression I received as I read it was that the allies knew exactly when they were going to win the war. And although it didn’t always go according to plan the fact was that they had a plan – and would make adjustments to the plan as they went. Churchill, along with the American and Russian leaders that worked closely with him, knew when Hitler’s and the Japanese nation’s demise was going to happen. And they then continued to work towards the fulfilment of that plan. They never considered the possibility of defeat. It was a detailed and well executed plan that we can now read in the history books.
And life is very much like that. I know for a fact that throughout my lifetime there are innumerable battles that I have lost – but my concentration is not on the battles. I want to make sure that I position myself with God(Joshua 5:13-14) so that at the end of my life God will be able to clearly declare – and it will be proved by the legacy that I leave behind – that I have in fact won the war.

May we ever be ready to face failures by the grace of God, for only God knows what He is about.(the truth renaissance poem)

When God wants to drill a man and thrill a man and skill a man when God wants to mold a man to play the noblest part when he yearns with all his heart to create so great and bold a man that all the world shall be amazed watch his methods watch his ways how he ruthlessly perfects Whom He royally elects how he hammers him and hurts him and with mighty blows converts him into trial shapes of clay which only God understands While his tortured heart is crying and he lifts beseeching hands how he bends but never breaks When his good he undertakes how he uses whom he chooses and which every purpose fuses him by every act induces him to try his splendour out God knows what he's about!

TU WATCHMAN HAI!!!Why does my watchmen sing "Jaagte raho" at night

Oye Saa.....bji Salaam!!

The ascent of a gorkha nepali ( pardon the discrimination) doing the rounds of your colony at night , or the coco cola add of aamir khan or for that matter, even the sound of it now ringing in your minds---what picture does it draw in all-- MY WATCHMAN!!!

Have you ever questioned in your inquistiveness--why do watchmen whistle at night.Why do they have to say "Jaagte raho" . Well if you have heard it at mid night, and you have just woke from your deep sleep, then am sure thats not the time to think but to think aloud "what the _____ is this watchmen doing? He just woke me from my sleep. Am i not paying him that i may sleep sound, then why is he waking me up with his whisting sound and "jaagte raho" tune. Well i know there are many things that does'nt allow me to sleep sound--my neighbours dog whistling "oooooooo" or the mohalla dogs/witches barking and fighting over their "territory breach" or closer to bed my wife snoring....But no , i got the right to shout at my watchmen....why??...for moneys sake i am paying him so that i can sleep tight.

Well there are some Paradoxes of life, we may not think much about, its just a Paradox.
Well i did think for once and i found a little more than i looked for...anything but the answer for my question "WHY DO WATCHMEN make  the sound at night....Here it is " TU WATCHMAN HAI" from this Ezeikel 33:7-9extract...

You, son of man, are the watchman. I’ve made you a watchman for Israel. The minute you hear a message from me, warn them. If I say to the wicked, ‘Wicked man, wicked woman, you’re on the fast track to death!’ and you don’t speak up and warn the wicked to change their ways, the wicked will die unwarned in their sins and I’ll hold you responsible for their bloodshed. But if you warn the wicked to change their ways and they don’t do it, they’ll die in their sins well-warned and at least you will have saved your own life.

Comment me your answers, what do you think of it?tab tak "JAAGTE Raho"

Monday, October 13, 2014

Mere Brother Ki Shaadi Hai !!!

I am writing this on the advent of the emotional confusing occasion of my younger brother getting married. Happy ,Yes. Sad , No. Expression : Straight Face
Life right now to me is a trailer of the past. This trailer shows me and my brother in the limelight, the only two other people blinking are my parents. Well it seems not long ago this movie had a long run in my life as it would seem almost 21 years , till one hero left to scene to study further.....and then the younger hero followed to another planet....and finally the producers :) return back to their birth place.....To every sibling- "The Family" - movie brings mixed emotions, some might say am glad it ended early, and some like me would wish "Oh my...how i Wish the movie went on..."! . 

 You see We grew up in the 19th century where Father is the head of the house-outdoor,mother the kitchen lady-indoor and siblings playing in the front yard breaking glasses-outdoor and indoor. Oh Deja Vu... Now get married in the 20th century, where Father,Mother are the head of the homes depending on availability and Grand maa/ House maid is the kitchen lady again depending on availability and siblings in their individual private rooms but hey they they are social networking--ofcourse depending on network and balance availability. 

 To the gen-Y couples, the worst advices are one that goes like..."In our days... 
The best ones seems to be the one that would say...STAY Married...till 21st generation comes up at least. 
And that's what i am to going to give to my brother on the advent of his Marriage Movie release. Anything more will be a flop... ....

 What advice would you like to give this gen X ??

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Married for Life !!

Binu Thomas :
STAYED MARRIED July 7,2011 -to- dooms day !!

I would like this to be written top my Tombstone. Someone s listening!

Anyways ignore the prelude. Now for the body of the post:

1 week before my wedding day ;On my premarrriage counselling session i was asked (read warned ) with the first question "
"Why do you want to get married".

My first answer was coz i want to...
COunsellor said Next
second answer i am not asked to stay unmarried
COunsellor said Next
Third answer came Coz as bible says :Its better to marry than to burn in passion"..
It is now the counsellor stopped asking the question again.

What would have been your answer before u got married?
What wud be ur answer if u were asked this question now?

As for me -one who is 66 days young:) in marriage- i would say "Wow!!!i dint know i had so much of love in me until i got married.
As someone said " I need more spritual energy to love my wife than to preach to the whole world".True this is for me...

Whats your story !! Do comment

Sunday, July 18, 2010


could not ask for a better start to the week.
I just had 3 lessons back to back for 3 different school.
Got to share the 1st one with you:

Place -Kenneth George School,Kempepura,Hebbal.

I reached the school and saw the morning assembly about to start.There was a group of 500 students all smartly cleanly dressed (ofcourse its because its monday :).Around 15 teachers standing face to face infront of their class line respectively.Extra ones standing at their back.And me (tall, dark and ??) guy standing at the back of all.an with all the attention from the small ones i was trying to be normal(tough haan...).And then There were a small group of IX and X std students who were ready to lead the group assembly in the following:

--a song--"the steafast love of the lOrd never ceases"..
--questions --who is the father of geometry :(
--announcements - by the principal.
---(did i mention the song "ggooooooooddddddmmmmornnnniiinnnng ssssssssiiiiiiiiirrrrrrr):)
--the pledge--India is my country
--the national anthem --Jana gana Mana..
--Then the breaking of assembly and waiting in queue for your turn to go to your class

you know it was fun fun fun unlimited.
In a flash i was taken back to my school days 12 years back when i last attended a school morning assembly.
I tell you again its fun with all the setting..
I did it all...this time i went to 5th std.(as a teacher of course)

Man for amoment imagine that there passes a law by the Indian govt.that all the factories ,govermenet and private companies are to follow this practice..
I can only imagine...

--a song--"the whole thing is that sabse bada rupaiya"..
--questions --who invented money :(
--announcements - by the CEO.
---(we sing the song too "ggooooooooddddddmmmmornnnniiinnnng ssssssssiiiiiiiiirrrrrrr):)
--the pledge--India is my country
--the national anthem --Jana gana Mana..
--Then the breaking of assembly and waiting in queue for going to your own cabins..

Sounds boring/ interesting
Let your imaginations fly..

but for now....
its the bell- tan tan tan tan tan tan tan tan tan tan tan tan tan tan
( period is over):)